First book ever - for one more day

Few days ago, I have succeded finish reading a book entitled "for one more day" by the author of tuesday with Morrie.

I felt proud of myself that I have really finished reading one book with any forcing by anyone. Having read the book, I cried for a while. It touched me on how my parents sacrifice themselves to grow me up. I am precious about the moment that they work very hard since they have my sisters and me and I don't realy precious them. I felt shameful. I thought I have enough filial piety; however, I am not. I hurt them for many times. I shouldn't have do this. I should precious them. From now on, I should really love my parents and family and precious them.

God, please let me family stay healthy and safe all the way. May God always bless them. I love my family.

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An Inspiring C... :D

I would like to express a thousand of thanks for C. Please don't mind I use C to represent you name as I don't know whether you mind to be exist in my daily journal. 

I knew C since last year, during my drama performance - King Li Er. C is a very active girl. She is having same course and batch with me but different campus.

Today, I asked her something about the volunteering work and hence we started having conversation. I found that she actually loves reading while I don't. C encouraged me reading from the very basic such as start from my favourite genre. She loves detective novels, especially from John Grisham. 

She guided me to cultivate reading as hobby from several aspects. She explained the ways that can lead to love reading. "Reading novels is like directing movie". Firstly, I can imagine the characters as handsome or pretty as I can. Then, I can imagine the story line and scenes. I should expand my imagination circle. 

Later, I should not start stressing myself from reading. I could read something easy like Mr. Midnight or Wimpy Kid. As I would easily got into sweet dream during reading; therefore I should not read on bed. Haha!!! No wonder I always slept while I am reading!

Yea. I should cultivate reading as reading could help in my thinking. It could also expand my knowledge. I have been promised myself how and how to read many books while I always give up in the process. C encouraged me and also not to give up easily. Whenever I gave up, I can always find her and ask for SOS. haha! She is such as kind girl. THANKS C!!! 

#POSITIVE ENERGY# 

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第十期卓越青年励志营——感恩篇

感恩，我能够来到这个大家庭。我的朋友多次邀请我参与这个励志营，我也是多多理由拒绝了她。现在想起真的非常抱歉。但是，很感谢她，因为她，我才能够参与这个家，我开始觉得人生可以是很多颜色的，不只是黑、白或者灰而已。

我本身是个蛮悲观的人。总是认为，人生嘛... 都是 “悲”的。其实，我可以选择看人生的正面；偏偏我选了“悲”面。但是，经过这里发生的事情，我发现，只要我肯，人生都会是精彩的。所以非常感激，我可以认识到各位，让我开始见到人生的精彩。若有机会，我会回家的。

感恩 :D

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第十期卓越青年励志营

这是我第一次参加这个大家庭。在这个家里，我学到很多东西也有很多感触。我是第五组的督导。我深深的认为督导必须能够体会营员的感受。一开始，我认为督导的工作并非那么艰难。因为我曾经当过一个小学生激励营的营长；可是这个励志营后，我觉得督导往往比营长更多东西可以学习。虽然工作以及压力不比营长多，但是工作范围非常有趣。我抱着学习的态度参与第十期卓越青年励志营，无论是向张荣福老师-张爸爸、工委、督导还是营员，我都是抱着学习的态度。在这次激励营里，我担任“务边古迹行”的其中一位工委和第五组“飞高高”的督导。

首先，我想分享我当“务边古迹行”的工委的感想。起初，我认为这趟古迹行会很难解决，我也过于担心。可是，出来的效果获得许多成员的嘉许，我感到非常开心。我实在有太多的焦虑，担心我会毁了这么好玩的古迹行，幸亏有其他的工委支持和分担，我开始改变我的想法了。我很努力去了解每个建筑物背后的故事，也和彭老师还有一组的工委和一些协调员讨论，慢慢的，我能拿捏活动的行程和步骤。最后，到了实践期，多得各组督导帮忙协调、协调的帮助，还有其他工委的帮忙和营员的合作，大家有安然无恙。非常感恩。我学习到只要肯付出和努力，大家都会帮忙和感激。虽然在期间，我犯了错，可是没有被骂，反而被安慰下次要更加小心和警惕。真的很难得，我心想的“一定会被骂的念头”被正能量打败了。我发现安慰和鼓励比骂或指责来得有效。谢谢大家。

跟着，我也从其他督导学到很多东西，也从自己-身为一位督导的经验中领悟到很多。

一、做人必须要正面思考。“正能量永远会胜过负能量”。我承认我的脑子充满着负能量。因为我不相信正能量能改变什么。所以，进这里之前，我答应自己要放下一切想法，到这里学习。张爸爸告诉我们，无论如何，一定要有正面的思考。做错了，没有关系，总比什么都不做来得好。但，需要学会自我反省。如果觉得自己不能，就要告诉自己“你一定行的！！” 所以，我开始尝试去做。每次我累了，我就告诉自己“我精力充沛！”。果然，我真的可以继续下去，而且还能够让大家开心，渐渐把疲劳除掉。

二、我们要相信别人。其实，在期间，我很担心是否我的组员能够呈现出表演。原来这是一个不信任他们的方式。我应该放下担忧，无条件的相信他们。渐渐的，我竟然发现“飞高高”的表演非常精彩。大家都以最大的能力发挥自己。顿时，我感到非常欣慰，但也很抱歉我起初的不相信。第五组，你们真的是太棒了！！

三、放手也是一种成全。要让一个人成长，我们必须要放手让他去尝试。总有一天，他是会成功的。无论成果如何，至少，他们曾经努力了。只要他们学到东西，那就是成功。成功不在于名利，而是在于你是否曾经付出过。

四、放下自己的身段。督导、督导、督导...这个称号，好像告诉我，你是个领导者，你需要带动大家。其实，这是不应该 的，督导只是领导，到最后也是要靠各位组员的努力。他们的努力是督导最大的成就。一开始，我承认我给自己很大的压力，我很害怕带动不到组，可是经过无数人的引导，我放下了自己的身份；很努力的融入组里面。我发现这样是比较容易建立起友好的关系。而且，我的组员都很可爱，虽然开始有点怕陌生，可是到最后，大家都会为了一个小动作而一直开玩笑。真的非常难得。我认为，督导应该要把自己当成是组里的一份子，努力融入大家，这样才会慢慢地培养好的关系。

五、常鼓励和赞美。在这个励志营里，这里是容许我们犯错，但是必须反省。在这里，我做过无数的错误，我还以为会被高层骂到够够力，可是，这事情竟然没有发生。他们最多只是多多提醒，让我们时时警惕，记得不要再犯错。而且，在我担心的时候，大家都给予鼓励，轻轻的一句加油已经让我非常感动。

最后，这个励志营真的让我获益不浅。感恩有张爸爸坚持举办这个励志营，感恩我们的营长、副营长、秘书处、协调、督导们以及营员们的支持与鼓励，我才可以获得那么多有益的知识。感恩有你们 :D

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